When Henry and Gaye Bennett left their fast-paced life in London for a slower, more fulfilling existence on Mallorca, they didn’t just buy a home—they bought a lifestyle and a business. In this inspiring and eye-opening episode, they share their journey of relocating with three children, purchasing a historic finca with a holiday licence, and running successful retreats and weddings from their new home. They open up about the emotional and legal challenges of the move, commuting back to the UK, and the unexpected perks of Mallorca life—from village fiestas to barefoot business meetings. Whether you’re dreaming of your own island escape or curious about running a finca-based business, this conversation is full of practical insights and lived-experience inspiration.
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Welcome to Mallorca Living
Hi, I’m Helen Cummins, and this is Mallorca Living, a video podcast dedicated to sharing the stories of inspiring people who have made this beautiful island their home. For each episode, we’ll share their story; they’ll tell us about their journey, the challenges, the triumphs, and the insider tips that make life here so special.
Meet Henry & Gaye: Why They Left London for Mallorca – “We changed our entire life – and it was the best decision we made.”
Hello and welcome! I’m here today with Henry and Gaye Bennett, and they’re going to tell us the story of their transition to Mallorca from London. They’re also going to tell us a little bit about a family settling into Mallorca, as well as buying a business and commuting back and forth to London. So we’re going to get loads of insights into a new life in Mallorca. Thank you so much for being here, Gaye and Henry.
Can you tell us a little bit about the idea, what inspired you to leave London and move to Mallorca?
You start, I’ll start. Well, I think we’d been looking at a move for quite a while. It’s just that we didn’t quite know where that move would be to. So, when we first started thinking about it, we were still thinking about somewhere else in London, perhaps, or potentially by the sea in the UK, but kind of still close to London. And we just couldn’t really agree on what we wanted, or certainly I couldn’t work out what it was I wanted, but I knew what I didn’t want. So I think that’s kind of how Mallorca came about in the first instance. So we were initially thinking about trying to buy somewhere as a holiday place here and splitting our time between the two. And I think, really, the permanent move here came when we, I guess, just found the house that we absolutely loved, fell in love with.
And what about you, Henry? I think, as most couples, it’s slightly different. For about five years, I was pretty set on Mallorca, having come here since I was about eight. So we did look around lots of different places, but I think the appeal of particularly the airport, being able to travel to Mallorca at the time, I was traveling to America every two weeks, I think, so that was quite appealing. But to be honest, I was always pretty keen on Mallorca for about five years.
But you have a history with Mallorca because you’ve been coming here since your childhood, right? Yes, definitely. And obviously it’s different from mainland Spain in quite different ways as well. But yeah, I think it was more of a journey for you. It was, yeah, agree. Or, yeah, because the option, you lived quite central London, right? That was one of the motivations, your family was growing up and you wanted to have a bit more space, right? Yeah, definitely. I think if you live as well in central London, it’s quite difficult to live anywhere but central if you want to stay in London, because the thought of traveling 30 minutes to get back to where we used to live, to go to work, would be a pretty, pretty depressing day-to-day life. But generally we wanted to slow down a bit, have a better life for the children, which I think it has delivered for certain.
Moving with Three Kids: “It surpassed our expectations in terms of how well they settled.”
So how are the children settling in? Because you have three children: Koko, Juno, and Frank, and they’re more or less teenagers, and it’s a massive transition for them to a new country, new language, new everything. How are they doing? They’re actually doing really well and it sort of surpassed our expectations in terms of how well they’d settle because we were a bit worried, but equally we kind of thought they’re kids and they can adapt and they’re good at adapting and it will be a lot of fun. So we kind of didn’t think that they wouldn’t, but it happened a lot faster than we imagined, which is amazing.
So I remember you applying to the academy, so that was the school that you decided on, and you made the application, and I think having three children was maybe an advantage in the end. We actually moved without a school, though. Oh, did you? So we didn’t have the school place till afterwards. I think that’s correct, isn’t it? We had some places but not all places, so so they couldn’t accommodate all of them. So it was a bit, and we had to keep letting the places go as we had delays and so on with with actually trying to buy the place. I think though, generally it’s quite funny because when you talk to your friends or family about doing this sort of move, everyone will say to you, “It’s a bad time to do it.” Insert, they’ve just made new friends at junior school, they’re just starting G. There’s always a reason not to move your children. But actually, like having done it, and maybe our kids maybe are different, maybe not, but actually out of all of this, that’s been the easiest bit. I mean, the kids have very much slipped into, in their eyes, a better life. In fact, at Christmas none of them were that keen to come back to England really. So I think it’s pretty quick. I think if people were looking to move here or anywhere else, I think I think our one of our advice would be that whatever you think the problem with the children will be is probably going to be less than you think it is from our experience anyway.
And what about the language, the learning the language, learning Spanish? Yeah, I mean the well, it’s an obviously it’s taught in English. So actually our youngest, because he plays sports, actually speaks the best Spanish. Because a lot of people did say to us that not just the academy but all international schools here, that actually if they don’t play sport, they probably will not be fluent because their friends will likely speak English. And actually that, I think that probably is a pretty true statement actually. So my advice would be get your kids into sport. Yeah, and I think like Frank is the youngest, he’s 10, so I really think the younger your children move to Mallorca, the better chance they have of agreeing to speak, because they’re like a sponge when they’re really young and it seems to be so easy for them.
Chasing the Dream: From First Zoom Call to a New Life – “It felt inconceivable not to make the move.”
Tell me, I was looking back today on our when was our first Zoom call? And I found our follow-up email and it was the 18th of January 2022. So I remember that call, yeah, with you. And you know, you were on Zoom and I was seeing your your house in in England and so on. And you explained to us at the time the what you were hoping, you know, what were you dreaming of moving and so on. And then the whole follow-up. So if you think back to 2022 early January, mhm, what was going on in your mind? What what were you thinking? And and now of course you see it from a different perspective. But at that moment, how was how was the dream of Mallorca? What was it?
I think a slower life, like a very different pace of life. And also, um, partly looking actually the next stage of our lives, which is obviously planning to at some point not not have to work as well. And yeah, I suspect a lot of people that move here have one eye on that, particularly if they’re similar age to us. But obviously as well, 2022, I can’t remember the exact dates, but I guess we were just coming out of COVID, which London was fair to say, not much fun to be. Yeah, no, but I think it was a wake-up call for a lot of us, right, to change to change life at that point. Yeah, but I think also we were, we just wanted a bit more fun and and we just kind of thought, “Do we want to be still here in 10 years time doing what we’re doing now in the same place?” And we didn’t. So it was kind of, “Let’s try.” And I know you’re having more fun here now. Yes, yes. Of a lifestyle. Yes, I think it’s almost, it feels almost inconceivable that we didn’t do this. I don’t think it’s possible for us to think that we would have just stayed in London because we probably would have just stayed in the same house. But I think that, but I think I think always difficult thing, isn’t it, is that one thing wanting to do it, and actually second thing is actually doing it, and that’s pretty wide. Uh, because obviously we’ve got a lot of friends as well who are like, “Oh, I love, I love the theory of it.” But I think that the the actual practicality is possibly not for not for everyone. I think it’s fair to say.
But that’s true because we see it on the Zoom calls, you know, we have many Zoom calls with people and they all have the same aspirations, but I think you you were so courageous with your decision. It was kind of you were doing it and I I think once you found that dream property, that was it for you, it you were hooked and it was going to happen, right?
Why Choosing the Right Location Matters: Schools, Trains and Daily Life – “We had no idea how important the train line would be.”
So can you talk to talk us through because you looked at many houses actually and you even set your heart I think on a house more towards the north of the island and then when you came back for a second viewing you realized, “No, actually that’s not the one.” And in that visit, I think you found what was your dream and it probably wasn’t what you set out looking for, right? No, no, I don’t think it was. I mean, we when we came here on holiday a lot with our kids, we generally went to the north of the island up around sort of Pollensa and that kind of area. And we thought we wanted to live around there, didn’t we? And we did look at a few properties with with you around there and and they were great. But I think the more we found out, the more we realized that actually it’s not super practical for us sort of going forwards. And it’s not super practical with the kids. And yeah, and I think being introduced in new areas really helped, didn’t it? Yeah, I think what we knew at the start and what we know now, even now, if we if if someone was to kind of say say to us in a similar position to us, where where would where should you live, we would be pretty set on like, if you want to go to particular school that we’re at, there’s like a triangle between where we are, Santa Maria to Binissalem and Alaró, that that’s like the the the place to do that. All those places we didn’t know at all, like. Yeah, you didn’t know it. But then it became very important to you. And I think your proximity to Palma was incredible and your and to the airport, right? For for both living.
Schools, also the holiday rental business we have, but also most importantly of all, which we had no idea actually when we put an offer in the house is a train line. Because if you got teenagers and anyone looking to do this, if you have teenagers, your child will be in Palma three, four nights a week. And all of them, a big gang of them all come back on the last train and then get a bus. And to be honest, had we moved somewhere that was not in that train line, I think that would cause us a pretty a pretty substantial problem. And so that that would definitely be particularly if kids are in that age of starting to go out after school, that train line. I’ve heard that from many people that being close, you know, within a five, 10 minute walk or drive to the airport. And even for yourselves, if it gives you that option that you can go into Palma and in summertime when the car parks are all and everything, Palma is collapsing, you can just take the train and and go in. It’s massive. I mean, to be honest, I I’m pretty certain I haven’t come here every I didn’t even know there was a train line, because as a tourist you don’t, there’s no reason why you would particularly do that. Agree. Um, but that that I mean, obviously we’re slightly biased, could have ended up there. But that triangle is definitely a a very practical and beautiful place to live. You access the mountains, the beach, the schools, Palma, all with with relative ease, which is not true in all parts of the island, obviously. Yeah, um, so being close to, you said Santa Maria, so it’s kind of like so you got Portol, Santa Maria to Binissalem and Alaró, that sort of that that that that triangle. And the school that your children are attend is quite close, right? It’s in Marratxí, yes. It’s not and it’s what, 10 minutes drive from your house? It’s about 15 probably. But we are mixed between, we’ve got two kids in the senior school and one in the junior school. So you drop two drops, senior drop first, and then go back on yourself and drive. We we often say that the uh the price of paradise is driving driving right spend a lot of time driving the kids around. Yeah, well this is normal at their age, right? There is a period because I’ve I finished that last, well beginning of this year, my daughter finished school and I was like, “Yes, finally no school run.” Well, I believe I believe 15-year-olds can drive those mini cars of which looks pretty. You’re tempted to maybe? No chance, not yet.
Falling in Love with Finca Hermosa – “This house changed everything.”
So what was it about your house that made you fall in love with Finca Hermosa? What was it that captured your heart?
Well, I think I I came and saw it first. And in fact, even before we saw the house, we were looking at, um, I was showing our kids the houses that I was going to see with Lucy when she showed us around and um and my daughter said, “Oh, I really like that one, um in particular.” And and the photos were not great. So but I think I’d already looked at quite a lot of properties before we got there and discounted most of them for one reason or another. But there I think the second I walked through the door, I just had a good feeling about it. It just felt right and I felt like every corner I went around, I just liked it more. It’s a spectacular property, I have to say. I mean, I fell in love with it when I went to see it. I thought it’s it’s a dream and it’s not, I think it’s something that’s very difficult to find. You might dream of having something like that because it could be kind of a a Mexican hacienda in Tulum or it could be a very traditional Spanish, but it just has something very, very special because of this courtyard area. Yeah, it I mean, it is a it is a unique property in Mallorca and I think, um, uh, obviously we did different reasons, but Gaye saw it first and loved it. It was probably more expensive than we wanted to, we actually wanted to to to buy a house for. But the primary sort of goal throughout this was to buy a house with a business. And it’s quite hard to find places here on the island where you can live in a property host weddings, uh, host big groups, uh, and retreats. You do a lot of yoga retreats, art retreats, writing retreats. It’s amazing. Exactly. And also as well, we were we were quite lucky as well because the previous owners had bought their children up in it, uh, which is which is primary why we wanted to move there obviously. But then what happened is the daughters then took it over and basically modernized the house. In fact, did a very good job on that. So actually, we sort of bought a house which was the right cross-hair for us that is quite unusual. It’s not too modern, but it’s also not brown everywhere, um, as we know when you look around houses often in rustic houses quite often they’re sort of, you know, very brown dark, where this is very light. It’s got a lot of windows, but the house itself is a pretty a pretty extraordinary place. And actually, you know, in our village everyone knows that that that house apparently used to have the whole village used to come up for parties allegedly, yeah. Oh, it’s beautiful. It really is. And it has three separate houses on the estate. So do you how does it run with with when you have a retreat for example, do they take over the main house? So they’re all, yeah, they’re all it’s all sectioned off. So basically like the the courtyard area and the main house and all the gardens is the guests. And then we have like an L-shaped sort of lateral living, uh, three bed house effectively. And our teenage daughters have another three-bedroom house. So actually, they don’t even move back in now. We’ve lost our teenage daughters. They have their own house on the property. Shop for food or what? Yeah, so it is a little bit annoying to eat and get clothes. So we bought we’ve bought a big house that we primarily live in, but it’s only me going and Frank now because the other two they just don’t come in house anymore, right? Which is a little bit frustrating because you want to have them all there.
Buying a Home with a Rental Business – “We bought a property and a business.”
Wow, and is it an all year round business or is it just summertime? Yeah, definitely all year. We’ve been quite surprised. We got numerous bookings in December. We’ve had bookings in January. We’ve had a couple in March, a retreat in March, fully booked in April. I mean, it is we could probably rent a house every week of the year if we actually wanted to do that. Um, but more the focus that we’re trying to do is have more pro probably less bookings with more revenue with slightly different guest profile. And also probably weddings and retreats as opposed to just booking it generally because interesting, a lot of our guests are American and Asian. That’s typically American and Asian women, yeah, which is interesting. Um, so and I think and how did they find you then? So the previous owners, as I as I mentioned before, in case of listen, they did a very good job. So the um marketing the property, the house has been in um like the New York Times, as Vogue, uh, where else? It’s been if you Google, it’s been so it’s been featured. So we have a lot of people that who approach us directly saying, “We want to stay here,” as opposed to say, which is obviously pretty helpful. That’s great. Really great.
Did you have to pay a premium for that because there was um a holiday license, a business? How how did that work actually? Uh, obviously have we paid a premium or not? I actually don’t know, but I suspect the negotiation was difficult in one sense because when you get to October, you probably got hundreds of thousands of euros of bookings the following year. So there’s obviously an enterprise value and a a residential value. We never actually discussed whether that was split. In fact, we did at the start actually, whether we could split the two negotiations. Um, but but probably yes would be the answer, but it wasn’t as clear because there’ll be different tax implications if it was split, I presume. So, yeah. So basically you bought a a home with uh this holiday rental license. And actually it already had a a very strong reputation and therefore you really could start a run like you just took it over and it was running, right? Yes, correct. So you had income from day one. Yes, much needed income, much needed income with all the maintenance, yeah, yeah. I mean, when you buy a house, allow. So typically what happened is the bookings get transferred over to us. So we had probably, I don’t know, maybe 15 bookings that that were 15 weeks of bookings that were transferred over. Um, of which yes, anyone looking to do this with a holiday rental license, that is quite key because when you start from scratch, obviously it takes a while for the Airbnb or whichever platform you’re going to use algorithms to catch up. But but yeah, I mean, I would say it’s not hard to rent places here on holiday rentals because there is just not enough of them at all. And there’s no more because you can’t get a license now any. So, um, it’s literally what is available is available. They say more or less it’s a 20% premium you pay on a property on the price of a property that has an existing license. I guess that expands the potential buyers, right? Because that means potentially a holiday rental owner or someone living there, although I have to say our house is not for someone that doesn’t want to live there. That’s fair to say because it’s just too too much to. I mean, we really we bought it because we really wanted it to be our home and we wanted to bring our kids up there. But then it’s also that sort of opportunity um to run it as a business as well. And I think if if your brain works that way, which thankfully Henry’s does. Sometimes mine mine less so. Um, and I think your background in vacation rental area anyway. I didn’t say that very well. His background in the vacation rental business side of things anyway is is super helpful. Yeah, but I mean, but you know, here particularly running a holiday rental business is a good business. There’s no, there is no getting away from that because we’ve noticed as well, which I never knew. So people that booked all over December, they were coming because they wanted to come for Christmas in Palma, which which which I never really considered that would be a destination for a Christmas uh you know, a Christmas break. I was looking at all the nationalities of people that have booked. I mean, it is amazing. We’ve had everywhere from Russia to China to America, South America, Colombia, like literally it’s pretty much everywhere other than Europe. Pretty much Europe. Well, we have a few but but broadly if someone books from Europe, I’m surprised which is quite interesting as a change the island generally, I imagine.
Hosting Retreats and Weddings at the Finca
So now you’re going to start doing weddings as well as the retreat. So this is where somebody rents the property from you and then they do all the catering and the organization themselves, right? Or they hire somebody to do that?
So we’ve we’ve done so we’ve we’ve sort of established relationships, some of which you’ve introduced us to actually, uh, for uh catering, hiring all the equipment, etc. And we’ve just opened or just built a um with planning permission, just point out, um like a a mini bodega at the back of the property. We’ve done deals with four or five of the local wineries. Wow. So so it’s quite is very set up for weddings. There’s like a sort of bodega area, roof terrace area, big area with the So yeah, we got our first first wedding booked. But we get probably one or two inquiries a week for weddings, probably, I would have thought. Amazing. Fantastic. So this is a a whole new area of development that you’re doing.
The Challenges of Buying Property in Mallorca – “Buying a house in Mallorca took over a year.”
Can we talk a little bit about the whole process of buying the property because I do remember observing all the emails going back and forth with Lucy and yourselves and and it it took more or less a year, right, to buy the property? I think it took a bit more actually, more than a year. Uh, and even I think Lucy went on maternity leave and came back. We were hoping to have the deal done and and actually did take a lot. The downside of buying a property with a holiday rental license is you cannot buy it between April and October, right? Because obviously the guests are are in the property. So that obviously partly didn’t help as well, which everyone should be aware of that obviously there’s a window to buy those type of properties out of season effectively, right? So talk me through the issues. You you agreed with the owner. You and the owners got the previous owners got on very well. You made a good deal. So what were then you started, I think, to sell your own property in London, organize maybe the financing side. What were the issues that you came across?
Well, the main issue that we had, of which anyone’s listening to this, I would strongly advise is sell your main home first before trying to do this. So that’s an easy bit of advice to do, but is a pretty big leap of faith obviously to do that. But there’s no no question in my mind that had we had we done that, we would have shortened it by a third probably, right? Because one and you can correct me with this, I think you have to put down is it 20%? 10% at the start? So obviously you need uh cash flow liquidity to do that. In the UK, you don’t do that. So that obviously causes a problem. Uh, we were lucky enough that wasn’t necessarily the uh the issue. But I think also like it’s a full I I think it’s a pretty much a full-time job to try and do this if you’re moving a family, selling a house, buying a house, particularly with holiday rental license, assessing the business back and forth. It is almost a full-time job for a period for certain. And obviously if you people have full-time jobs, don’t have the flexibility to run your own business, that is a blocker. There’s no because it isn’t something you can kind of just do just do in the background. I would agree with that because I think because I I I am employed um full-time pretty much. Well, I have one day off a week. Um, but um had Henry not been able to sort of be more a little bit more flexible, but also the fact that I think you just lived and breathed it. So you probably got up incredibly early and got on to things and you were still doing it late at night, weren’t you to fit around your business and work as well. Um, but it’s a
Legal Complexities and Tips for Foreign Buyers – “There’s no way the move would have worked without help on the ground.”
Commitment! I mean, as we said, it’s the dream that everyone has, the practicality. I mean, it’s, you know, and and we obviously use your service, which is incredibly helpful. If you didn’t do that, obviously then that’s another layer on top of that as well. Because obviously without all the introductions, because I remember Lucy was constantly chasing everybody involved from from the bank to the lawyer to the it was like a a a big process to get everything.
And then the second big issue, of which you you obviously are very familiar with, is if you want to buy a house that’s not in urbanization, the house would at least partially be partly “illegal” in inverted commas. Although it’s not illegal, but it is. And that for someone who’s coming from particularly England, where actually there’s a lot of problems in England, but actually property definition of legality is actually quite I actually look back on it and think actually they’ve got that pretty much straight, whereas here, you know, there’s all sorts of different like habitation license that kind of make but you have about five different licenses on a property and you may have four that are perfect and then one it’s not all the paperwork clear or registered or whatever. So there’s there’s it’s very complex, the legal, the property legal system here. And people underestimate that because they assume Spain is the same as the north of Europe, and actually it’s not. Quite muddy though as well, doesn’t it? And I think advice you get from one area might not be the same as the advice you get from somewhere else. But but I actually think it’s a process though because I think when you first start, you look at house, go, “I’m not buying a house that’s illegal.” By the end of it, you’re like, “I just want that house,” because actually you know the more you get into it you realize that actually outside of an urbanization it is likely that no house has everything tied up in a in a bow. No, but even they say that if you change the tiles outside, you’re actually meant to get an obra menor. Who does that? Or even if you paint your house, you’re supposed to get an obra menor if you followed the letter of the law. And I think that’s why, and I think I would imagine that does put off some buyers, because I do think that if you first look, find a dream house, you find these things out and go, “Well that, I mean, buying in England is crazy is quite a,” but then obviously if you keep going you then sort of realize well actually every house is pretty well obviously not if you’re an urbanization or a town. But um so that that stalled it a lot as well. But the main thing is will the bank mortgage against it? Because the bank obviously will have a good risk profile against this. But that definitely stalled things because we had to psychologically get over the fact of parting with what is a significant sum of money, uh, you know, that that that that also took a little bit to be fair.
Definitely. So for somebody new coming to the island facing similar issues, what what would you say to them now in hindsight? I I would say that you need to talk to some people that have purchased properties in in Mallorca, particularly if it’s a rustic land property or or fincas, um, because everyone’s been through the same process, us who’ve done this. And everyone now, if I’m honest, we don’t really even think about it. But at the time it was the only thing you’d think about. And again, that’s just how vulnerable are you to in the legal exactly. And you’re coming as a foreigner when you don’t speak the language, you don’t know the laws, so many potential problems. And I have to say, on top of that, is to have a really good lawyer. I mean, we we work, we have um a recommended list of lawyers and we only have that because we have experience, firsthand experience of these particular lawyers. I’m sure there’s many more that are fantastic, but it’s really important to have good legal advice and in a way practical, because some can just give you the whole negative negative negative and say, “Oh I’ve done my job now I’ve told you all the downsides.” But the practicality is something else because if you want to buy the business, you buy the property, you want to make it work. So there’s somewhere a balance, right, between the two. But it’s definitely not for the faint-hearted. I think that’s what we’ve concluded. And I think a lot of our friends probably would be quite keen for the life that we now have, but I probably wouldn’t be keen for the life we had for the two years to get here. But you have to do one for the other. Well, maybe not two years, but you know, and uh.
Well, I think it was from kind of 2022. When did you move in? So we moved in May 2024, so it’s not. I mean, yeah, so you had about 18 months of. And and I think once you made the decision, you start to become very like, because that’s no longer your base and you’re looking to move. But you’re in this transition phase, which is it’s a hard phase to be in. And we also faced as well the uh the joy of Liz Truss’s budget in the middle, which completely threw. I don’t know if you remember, but it completely threw out the housing market like never, well not never seen before, but a significant movement in the in the interest rate. So that was all thrown into um the mix, into the mix as well. And particularly that massive effect if you have a house in prime central London, more probably more than anywhere in some degrees. So um so that didn’t. So having somebody here as one point of contact and having somebody on the ground to that speaks the language and knows the people, how helpful was that in the whole transition for you? You say super helpful, wasn’t it? Yeah, I think I think it would have been significantly harder. So it was hard already. Even worse. I think I don’t think it it would have happened to be honest. I mean, also as well, the other thing to note is a lot of houses are listed with up to five estate agencies. So I think when we had the meeting and we signed, I actually think there was like three or. I mean the whole the whole thing on your own, I think would be would be a. And Lucy, who who who helped us actually, we live in the same village now. In fact, we meet up with Lucy, we’re friends with Lucy. So actually, you know, all in all, yeah. But I would say, I think that there’s the whole practical side of things. But I think there’s, and may maybe this is is my female side not side, may maybe this is this is me, but I feel like there is an emotional support there as well. So for someone like me, I’m I’m I’m I am more emotional, I’m less practical, um, in looking at the aspects of moving. And I found that sort of the general advice, um, and support in terms of just being somebody to run thoughts by and to talk about different areas and what the vibe is in certain places, what the feel is, what what it’s like to live here, what people are like, how you integrate into communities and so on. I found that advice in that aspect was some insight. Yeah, it was really, really important. And even putting us in touch with people to get their views and thoughts as well.
But also as well, I think the estate agent is not necessarily incentivized for you to buy a house that’s right for your lifestyle. They’re only incentivized to sell the house that’s right. So in fact, almost to a degree, if you don’t like it, you’ve got to resell it. That’s actually quite good for them anyway, right? So I, having someone that actually is going to look holistically at what how does your life work? Because we didn’t know. We were, we touched on it earlier. We genuinely did not know train lines, school, you know, if the kids were at a school, for example, Queens, the other side of Palma, how difficult that would be for us. So we weren’t even, to be honest, I wasn’t even thinking about that really because the other bit was so hard anyway. So I think that that’s probably for me where the main benefit is, is not just thinking how can I sell this house the most amount of money, but finding a house where actually not selling the most amount of money, because actually you’re working on probably our side as much as the estate agent side. Absolutely. Well, that’s what we do is we negotiate the best deal. And I think to be fair, when we looked when you think about the initial asking price for your property and through really hard negotiations, you got, you know, you got it quite. I mean, for the property you got with the license and the business, you did extreme. Do you know what actually, and and I I agree with that. And we’ve had a look as I’m sure everyone does that lives in this island, anywhere anywhere we go on the island, we have a look. Um, and I agree with that. I do think we got a pretty a pretty good deal. An amazing deal, I think. Hopefully, fingers crossed, it will it will prove to be. Yeah, no, I mean I. But you’re already growing the business, so it’s it’s really interesting.
Living between London and Mallorca: Gaye’s Commute – “I don’t miss London at all.”
Gaye, I want to talk to you about your uh commuting because you still have your job, you’ve maintained your job back in London. So tell us, what do you do actually? What is your profession?
So I’m an exec producer in um an agency in London. So I I make films and animations for business and sort of corporate brands, so on. So I was lucky enough that I could keep my job there whilst working here because they’ve got a really good flexible working policy. So I agreed um a renewed contract with them so that I could be here and work from here, but also go to London once a month for sort of three to four to five days, um, to be in the office. So I’m around my colleagues in person and also to go back if there are shoots or big meetings that I need to come back for. Um, and so far it’s worked. How do you feel? Yeah, when you’re leaving the family and going to London, you have or is it a few days vacation or is it like?
It’s funny, yeah, because Henry always says to me, because I’ll say, “Oh, I don’t want to go. I don’t want to leave you all. I feel really bad.” And Henry always goes, “Listen, you’ve got a few days without school runs, without having to cook dinners for the kids and and and see see friends in the UK as well.” And I always feel like that. And when I get there, I it I can’t lie, it it is quite nice to be there. You still have one foot in. I’ve still got one foot in there. I’ve got to say though, I still don’t I don’t miss it at all. So when I go back, I I mean it’s nice to be back and it’s nice to see people. It’s good to be in the office and to connect with people and have meetings in real life. But I don’t have any part of me that wishes I was still there. Wow, that’s such an incredible able to say. Yeah, because I felt like I might find to be a bit wistful at going back, but I’m just not. Yeah, because I have to say, London, Portol, it’s a massive difference. Portol is a pretty, it’s a beautiful village, but it really is a little bit even Palma compared to is very different. I’ve only been back, is it three or four times since we moved? I mean, my desire to to be in London is quite is quite low actually, now. Really low. Um, wow.
But I think it’s amazing how, I mean, me and Gaye have talked about this a lot, how you can actually change your life in quite a big way actually, but actually a lot of it’s still the same in a way of like, obviously the lifestyle is different, but I mean, still got the same problems with the kids, you still got work, you know. So although it’s big, it’s not it’s not actually as big if you see what I mean. It’s not like we’re living on a desert island. I mean, like, you know, Palma’s a pretty working. Yeah, but you’re the one actually more hands-on running the business side of it. So that was all new for you or so so my my business is in is in that same industry for technology for that industry. So I had a pretty good, pretty good base knowledge, although I’m not sure anything compares you to uh run a uh a quite a big vacation rental in Mallorca in the height of August with lots of everything that’s going on with everything that’s going on with uh lots of excitable Americans coming to party in um. Yeah. So yeah, so it’s been interesting. But I think as a general, as a as a general rule, running a business like that, it’s just pro, all of it is process and customer service. I think you love the fact, well, anytime I’ve visited you, you love the fact that you have your kind of bare feet or your your shorts and your t-shirt and your. You seem very very content in your life. I think we all absolutely love it. I think that if the kids were here as well, I think that they would that that they would agree. I mean, it’s been the best, it’s the best decision we’ve made, no doubt. Um, so so now it’s just trying to make it work going forwards, because like any business, there’s always always challenges. Yeah. I mean that will take time, I think, because you’ve taken over something that was running, you’re going to put your stamp on it and you’re going to probably bring your technology to it. And as you have more contacts as well, people will take over some of the responsibility that maybe you’re you’re doing at the moment. I think that’s what one of our challenges at the moment is that because you can’t really rent that house without someone present, because it’s just too much is actually we want to find someone to actually be there in August so we can go on a family holiday effectively. Although we were saying, weren’t we, that we’re not sure we’ll ever go on a beach holiday, because obviously we used to go for two weeks. But now we’re like, “Actually, we can there’s a lot of other places we’d now rather go as a family,” because obviously we go to the beach at any any time. And do you in summertime do you go to the beach now here? Well, I do. The kids weren’t here till September, yeah. So we finished off. We rented in London so they could finish off school and other work. So we we actually didn’t I I didn’t come with the kids until late August. So you this will 2025 will be your first summer in in Mallorca as a family. And right now with it raining, we’re all looking forward to that. Well, it’s, you know, we need this weather. I always say to people, when people say, “Oh, but it’s raining,” I say, “We need this because otherwise we’re going to have water issues in in July and August.” So I always kind of I’m thankful for the rain because I said that to one of my guests recently it turned out it was raining. It didn’t seem uh didn’t seem quite didn’t seem quite on board with me. Come back anytime. Yeah, we will have water for the garden. Was it your show before before we came and before we bought bought the house we hadn’t actually been to Mallorca out of season. No, you hadn’t. No, we hadn’t.
Mallorca Out of Season
And what’s your impression of Mallorca out of season? I think it’s lovely. It is. I mean for me, October is the best, is the best month. Um, I came out in initially in November to look at properties because I thought it’s important to come, spend a bit of time and see things at a point when it’s not sort of the rosy glow of summer and to sort of see what the atmosphere is like here and how Palma feels in winter. Although, um, it’s fair to say if you buy a finca, you do need to be aware of the the winter moisture that uh that comes in. I mean, it’s funny, someone told us quite on moving here is that they’re like, “In if you live in Spain, close your windows during the summer, but definitely open in winter.” Of which we were like, “That’s a strange.” And then you you were thinking very true. Yeah, very true. Because of the humidity and so on. And I think that that is something obviously that I mean, it’s not a massive problem, but it’s definitely something particularly if you’re not living in a modern house is something that you do need to prepare for basically. That’s the So we’ll probably set the house up slightly differently for next winter, it’s fair to say.
Raising Teenagers in Mallorca: How the Children Adapted – “The lifestyle here for kids is amazing”
Yeah, and what about the kids using the pool and and they they they love to enjoy the Mediterranean lifestyle now? Yeah, I mean, one of the things we’re a little bit concerned about is it’s a good thing, but the lifestyle here for kids is amazing. There is our oldest security and safety security, but also our teenage daughter like pretty much every weekend someone in their parents’ house has got some ridiculous house party. Like her lifestyle is is amazing. I mean, it is they’re not in, you know, they’re not hanging out in parks. They’re on the beach or which is an amazing lifestyle. But our biggest concern is will they will they ever leave? Will they actually go to university? Because it’s going to be difficult to live this lifestyle and then say, “Right, you know, off you, off you.” I I can tell you, my daughter just left in September and I don’t know how many times she’s come back from Paris. I mean, every opportunity we’ve. But we’ve heard this like I remember where, you know, where I grew up, I couldn’t wait to go to university and get away. And what we’re a bit worried about now is actually maybe it might be the reverse that like, it’s true. Um, so no.
I think kids that grow up here in Mallorca, they they have this impression that they’re they they look for a similar lifestyle in other places and they can’t find it and then somehow they end up moving back here later. I mean, I’m I’m very much for my daughter who grew up here for all her life. It was important that she leave the island and she needs to discover new things and have a bigger a bigger lifestyle than what you have here. But it’d be interesting, but you know, if she comes back in the future. But it’d be interesting if you ever spoke to, I mean, particularly Koko is the oldest. I mean, she would probably give some pretty good insights as well to any families looking to move because obviously she sort of lived it but without her choice of moving here as such. Um, but I’d be pretty surprised if she didn’t say that, you know, there’s no way she’d want to go back. That would be my would be surprised.
Schooling and Language
What about academically in school? Because they’re they’re doing, they’re going through the English system, right? How does it compare to the school that they were in in in London?
Pros pros and cons, I think. So the pros are it’s it’s a better school because it’s smaller classes. Cons are there’s not as much diverse choice of subjects. My oldest daughter particularly is very into drama. There’s not there isn’t there is unfortunately there is not much of that here. Um, but the school generally is very is very very good. But it’s not 100% slam dunk school is better or that in the city. Big London school has a lot of benefits because obviously you meet a whole different range of whereas here obviously the the classes are smaller and better. But it I mean the school is good, isn’t it? But it isn’t 100% this is a in every aspect better. I would say there’s probably less choice as well. So so because they can only offer certain things subjects because they’re they’re catering to a lot less pupils. Yeah, so I think if we compare to the school they were in where there seven forms of 30 kids per year to here where there’s sort of 20 25 times two, um, then then your choices are are reduced. So I think it depends what it is that you want to do.
And I have to tell you, there’s a lot more choice now than when we came to the island 25 years ago. Um, for because you do have some, um, you have the Pauling Quirk um academy and you have Palma College that opened and they they offer a lot more subjects now and sixth form. I think sixth form is better. I think it’s more the rigidness of around the IGCSEs. But but look, I mean that I mean the kids certainly aren’t complaining. I think it’s more just not observation of it isn’t I. Our friends are because our friends always ask this obviously because they’re always interested to know are the kids enjoy I know you’re enjoying it but what do you kids think? Um, I think it’s just isn’t that case of just the schools are better because you’re paying for an international school that isn’t not quite as simple as that switch. I don’t think I think the level of pastoral care is is, yeah, of course here. Food’s better for them to say, you know. And there is that also that feeling know that I I remember we talked before about the kids, you feel that the kids are safer here, you know. And this is a lot of kind of peace of mind for you and the kids around and stuff like that. I mean, Mallorca generally is quite safe. I I I think I mean obviously I guess depends where you are, but the kids walk up the, you know, we live at the top of a big hill, they’re happily to walk up there at 10 at night. To be honest, we don’t we’re not worried about that either, nor people in the village more importantly, because if they were then we would be. So yeah.
How is it living here without speaking the language so far? I know you want to learn the language. But speak a bit. We’re trying, aren’t we? I would not say, I say it’s not a problem. I mean, I I’ve met quite a few people who’ve lived here for years and they don’t speak any Spanish. Although I’ve got to say, I find that that’s not it’s not something that we want to do. We really do want to integrate. And we’ve moved into a village that is predominantly a Spanish village. It’s not, yeah. I think an an expat enclave. So we are trying to learn. And I think one of the things I love here is that uh people are really helpful with your language. So rather than kind of speak back to you in English or correct you, people will actually take the time to try to help. Um, but I think that’s sort of my all over, isn’t it? But I think if you wanted to do that, it’s quite. I mean, there are places here where you probably like Alaró is very English. Like you go into. But I think where we are particularly also if you need multiple staff to run your house, I think it’s impossible. Like, you know, we have a number of people that help at the house that they don’t speak any English. And there’s no they’re definitely not going to learn English. There’s only one option really that you’ve got to do. And also dealing with anything to do with you know, your your affairs to do with. I mean, it’s all of it is you need some basis. But I think if you do come and live in a different country, you probably should make an effort to from our perspective. That’s so.
How to Book Finca Hermosa
Henry and Gaye, thank you so much for all your insights. But before we finish, how would somebody go about contacting you if they’re interested to host their wedding at your beautiful Finca Hermosa or maybe rent it for an occasion?
So there’s two two two ways. Well, three ways primarily. But the main one is our website, which is finca-hermosa.com, uh, which you’ll find all the information. The other one is on Instagram, again, just fincahermosa Mallorca, or you can book on Airbnb. But obviously we prefer you book it directly with us, obviously, and obviously you get even more benefits for for. Yeah, yeah, we we offer anyone who books direct gets free free wine tasting on arrival and stuff. I mean. Wow, wow. And communication is easier when you book direct. Of course, you’re going directly. Do you and when people are staying, do you interact with them? Is it is it more that they have this feeling that? I think it depends what people want. Obviously, if they didn’t want to interact at all then you you won’t know where they’re in in in the main though most guests want because they’re only coming for a week and it might be their first time they want to fast track like, “Okay, so I need to know what where where do I eat? What’s the best beach club? How do I hire a boat?” So it’s pretty, “How do I get a private chef?” The questions pretty much are exact are exactly the same the same uh uh questions. There is a level of interaction, but also we obviously we help as well. There’s any problems, we we’re on site. So we can sort out pretty quick. So you help people to make the most. And hopefully you recommend ABC Mallorca as a great source of information. Of course, we take your recommendations. Yeah. Absolutely. And I think I think it’s difficult because you know, you know as well as I do, you walk around Palma, you can have a pretty bad meal or a very good meal. And sometimes you don’t necessarily. I think in general, it’s pretty good this standard, but of course there’s some hidden gems. So if you if you know somebody who can point those out to you, fantastic, great.
But thank you so much for your time and all the insights. I’m going to be invaluable to families who are thinking of moving like you did. And I think, um, you know, you made a really courageous move and I’m so happy that it’s all worked out and you know, it’s going well. So many more years of continued joy and success in Mallorca. Definitely. Thank you very much. No problem. Thank you for tuning into today’s episode of Mallorca Living. We hope you found it inspiring and uplifting. If you’re planning to relocate to Mallorca and buy a property here on the island, we would love to guide you and support you in your journey. Reach out to us today, book a consultation and let’s start your journey together to move to Mallorca.
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